Lauren Fox’s ‘Friends Like Us’: Poignant comedy about relationships

By Lisa Page,March 28, 2012
(Knopf/ )

“Your parents will fail you. Lovers will fail you. In the end it’s this: your best friend in a pancake house, witness to your despair.” That’s wisdom from Willa Jacobs in “Friends Like Us,” the latest novel by Lauren Fox. Willa is a 20-something artist who knows friendship is the linchpin of existence. Friends are constants, where family is often dysfunctional or missing in action. She remembers how a platonic relationship floated her through high school:

“Ben wasn’t exactly a guy, in the same way I felt I wasn’t quite a girl. Together, we were a third sex, an unsexed sex, and so, like siblings, like twins, like some sort of human/lemur hybrid, nothing was weird between us. We nurtured each other with great doses of sympathy and a tiny, shimmering sparkle of mutual superiority.”

Ben reenters Willa’s life at their high school reunion and to Willa’s surprise, is no longer “unsexed.” He’s shed the baby fat, grown several inches and developed an actual jaw. Willa brings him home to meet her other best friend, Jane, and the story’s poignant comedy takes off.

“I saw that Jane was just like me but better, an observation she would later, with a laugh, firmly deny. Jane had managed to sidestep the unearned cynicism the rest of us were afflicted with. Her poems were about the search for meaning in a sparkling kitchen sink, the persistence of mildew, dust bunnies, and stubborn love.”

As might be predicted, Ben and Jane fall hard for each other. And while this makes sense to Willa, it doesn’t sweeten her status as fifth wheel. Meanwhile, her brother has broken up with his girlfriend and is not doing well, and their parents, after enduring years in a bitter marriage, finally divorce. For Willa, intimacy is starting to look like an impossible goal.

“Even in your closest friendships, you’re alone,” she says. “Maybe it’s your best friend who, in fact, reminds you, just by making it her business to try to know your heart, that no one can — that our fate is to suffer in isolation and then die.”

That sprinkling of despair and humor is typical of Fox, who explored similar territory in her first novel, “Still Life With Husband.” There she established herself as chronicler of contemporary marriage and adultery. She’s in love with language and can squeeze laughs out of the worst situations while depicting nuanced, complicated characters. Her prose is intelligent, even as, occasionally, the jokes go overboard.

Willa goes on to make mistakes, of course, as she negotiates new relationships. And she learns more about her friends and the place they have in her life. This novel is ultimately about trust, betrayal and forgiveness. Fox makes you care about Willa and everyone else in “Friends Like Us” long after you’ve finished.

Page teaches writing at George Washington University and is president of the PEN/Faulkner Foundation.

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