What was perhaps even more touching than the tears, however, were the humble sentiments he shared. In comparing their work to what he did during his community organizing days, he said “I come here and I look at all of you and what comes to mind is not that you guys actually remind me of myself. It’s the fact that you are so much better than I was in so many ways.”

He told the assembled group of young staffers that “the most important thing you need to know is your journey’s just beginning. You’re just starting. Whatever good we do over the next four years will pale in comparison to what you guys end up accomplishing for years and years to come.” It’s almost hard to remember this is the president of the United States speaking.

Meanwhile, several stories have recounted a post-election breakfast in which Romney, frustrated, wistful and humble, told an investor on his national finance committee in attendance that he would not be heading out on any getaways immediately. “Uh, I’m going to be really busy,” the supporter said Romney told him. “I have 400 people to get great jobs for.”

No matter how many times his surrogates may have tried to tell stories of Romney’s generosity, no matter how much the GOP convention may have been an effort to “humanize” the candidate, nothing speaks louder than an off-the-cuff moment like that, which shows the responsibility he feels for the people who did so much for him.

Maybe there’s just something about the end of a campaign that brings out leaders’ most authentic natures. Maybe it’s simply that we see them more because the gatekeepers and advisers and spokesmen are guarding them less, and more willing to share when the stakes are no longer so high. And there’s no doubt that the emotions surrounding them—whether they are ones of triumph or of loss—have a way of forcing the defenses and the poll-tested messages to fall away. It’s just too bad we don’t see more of these moments during the campaign.